Does He Love Me?
Stop guessing. The cards reveal his authentic feelings, what he's not saying, and whether this love is real or just in your head.
Last updated: January 28, 2026
Our free "Does He Love Me?" tarot reading reveals his true feelings, hidden emotions, and relationship potential. Part of our comprehensive love tarot reading collection, this spread focuses specifically on uncovering whether someone genuinely loves you or if it's just attraction. For quick intuitive answers, try our Love Oracle. Want to know what he's thinking about you? We have a reading for that too.
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Is It Love or Just Attraction?
The cards reveal the difference
Intense obsession can mimic love. If you can't stop thinking about him and your mood depends entirely on his responses, you may be experiencing limerence rather than genuine love.
True Love Signs
- •The Lovers, Two of Cups, Ten of Cups appear
- •Long-term commitment cards present
- •Emotional depth and stability shown
- •Actions align with words
Physical Attraction
- •The Devil, Ace of Wands dominate
- •Passion without emotional foundation
- •Inconsistent behavior patterns
- •Avoids future talk or commitment
Does He Still Love Me?
When feelings seem to have faded or he's become distant, tarot reveals whether love remains beneath the surface. The cards show if his heart is still connected to you—even when his actions suggest otherwise.
Research from the Gottman Institute shows that emotional withdrawal often stems from "flooding"—a physiological stress response—rather than loss of love. Partners who pull away may still care deeply but need space to regulate their emotions. Understanding your attachment style can reveal why distance triggers fear in some people more than others.
Signs He Still Loves You in Tarot:
- •Six of Cups: He's nostalgic about what you had together
- •The Star: Hope remains, he hasn't given up
- •Reversed cards with Cups: Feelings are blocked, not gone
Distance doesn't always mean love has ended. Fear, stress, or personal struggles can make someone pull away while their heart stays connected. If distance is a pattern, explore whether you're dealing with an emotionally unavailable partner or an anxious-avoidant dynamic. Let the cards show you what's really happening beneath his silence.
His True Feelings & Intentions
What someone says and what they truly feel can be different. Tarot cuts through the words to reveal his authentic emotions—the feelings he might not even acknowledge to himself.
Hidden Feelings Cards
- The Moon: Emotions he's hiding or confused about
- High Priestess: Secrets about his feelings
- Seven of Cups: Fantasies he hasn't shared
Intentions Cards
- Knight of Cups: Plans to pursue you romantically
- Two of Wands: Considering a future with you
- The Chariot: Determined to make it work
Does He Have Feelings For Me?
Maybe you're not sure if there's romantic interest at all. This reading reveals whether he sees you as more than a friend—and if those feelings are developing into something deeper.
Reading His Energy:
Strong romantic feelings:
The Lovers, Ace of Cups, Two of Cups, Knight of Cups
Developing feelings:
Page of Cups, Three of Cups, The Star
Friendship only:
Three of Pentacles, Six of Pentacles, The Hermit
Physical attraction (not love):
The Devil, Ace of Wands without emotional cards
Does He Regret Losing Me?
After a breakup or separation, you might wonder if he realizes what he lost. The cards reveal whether regret is building—and if it might lead him back to you.
Cards Showing Regret:
- •Five of Cups: He's mourning what was lost
- •Six of Cups: Longing for the past with you
- •The Hanged Man: Stuck, reconsidering his choices
- •Judgement: Having a wake-up call about losing you
Regret doesn't always mean return. Sometimes people feel the loss but aren't ready to do the work required to come back. The cards show both his regret AND whether he'll act on it. For reconciliation guidance, see our Will They Come Back reading.
Cards That Reveal His Heart
What to look for in your reading
The Lovers
Deep soul-level love, authentic connection, major choice
Two of Cups
Mutual love, balanced feelings, partnership forming
Knight of Cups
Romantic pursuit, emotional offers, declarations coming
Ten of Cups
Committed love, long-term vision, family potential
When The Cards Show Red Flags
These cards suggest protecting your heart
Seven of Swords
Deception, hidden agendas, not showing full truth
The Moon
Illusion, confusion, unclear intentions or mixed signals
Five of Pentacles
Emotional unavailability, cannot give what you need
Red flags in readings often point to deeper relationship patterns. Learn to recognise love bombing, narcissistic relationship patterns, and trauma bonding so you can protect your heart.
Truth Seekers Share Their Stories
"Cards showed he loved me but was scared of commitment. I gave him space instead of pushing. He opened up 3 weeks later - engaged now!"
— Rachel M.
Relationship deepened"Reading revealed she was just enjoying attention, not serious. Hurt but moved on fast. Met my actual soulmate 2 months later."
— Tom B.
Dodged wrong person"The cards were clear - mutual love but bad timing due to his job transition. We stayed friends, reconnected 6 months later perfectly."
— Priya K.
Right person, right time"Cards showed love but also The Devil - toxic pattern from his past. I understood his struggle, we worked through it together."
— Jason L.
Healed togetherUnderstanding His Cards
Learn what each tarot card means when it appears as someone's feelings toward you.
Read: Tarot Cards as Feelings Guide →Does He Love Me FAQs
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