What This Reading Reveals
Three layers of insight into his mind
His Conscious Thoughts
What he actively thinks when you come to mind - his surface-level perception of you
His Deeper Feelings
The emotions beneath the surface - what he feels but might not show or say
His Intentions
What he's likely to do about his feelings - whether he'll act or hold back
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Cards That Reveal Positive Thoughts
When these appear, he's thinking good things about you
The Lovers
Deep connection, sees you as significant, thinking about commitment
Two of Cups
Mutual attraction, thinks you're a great match, partnership thoughts
Knight of Cups
Romantic thoughts, wants to pursue you, dreaming about you
Page of Cups
Sweet innocent thoughts, curious about you, developing feelings
What Is He Thinking About Me Right Now?
This moment-right now-what's crossing his mind about you? Tarot captures the current energy of his thoughts, showing you what occupies his mind when you come up in his consciousness.
Reading Present Thoughts:
- •Upright cards: Active, conscious thoughts about you
- •Reversed cards: Suppressed or conflicted thoughts
- •Court cards: How he perceives your role in his life
- •Major Arcana: You're significant in his thoughts
The cards reflect this moment in time. Thoughts change, but knowing his current mental state helps you understand where you stand and whether to take action or give space.
Relationship researcher Dr. John Gottman calls the small everyday moments of reaching out "bids for connection." In lasting relationships, partners turn toward these bids 86% of the time. If you're wondering what he thinks of you, pay attention to how he responds when you reach out-even small reactions reveal more than grand gestures. If he consistently fails to respond, he may be emotionally unavailable or showing signs of pulling away.
Is He Thinking About Me?
The simple but powerful question: Am I on his mind at all? Whether you're waiting for him to reach out or wondering if he's moved on, the cards reveal how present you are in his thoughts.
Yes - Often
Six of Cups, The Moon, Queen of Cups, Page of Cups
Sometimes
Three of Cups, Seven of Cups, Two of Wands
Rarely
The Hermit, Four of Swords, Eight of Cups
Being on someone's mind doesn't guarantee action. The full reading shows not just IF he thinks of you, but what those thoughts mean for your connection.
Questions You Can Ask
Get specific about what you want to know
What does he think of me?
Does he think about me romantically?
What does he feel when he sees me?
Is he attracted to me?
What are his intentions toward me?
Does he see a future with me?
Why hasn't he reached out?
Does he miss me?
What's holding him back?
Does he compare me to others?
What does he think of our connection?
Will he ever tell me how he feels?
What Others Discovered
"The reading showed he was afraid of rejection, not disinterested. I made the first move - we've been together 8 months now!"
- Emma K.
Found courage to act"Cards revealed he saw me as just a friend. Hard to hear, but it freed me to move on. Met my actual soulmate 3 months later."
- Jessica M.
Found clarity to move on"The Two of Cups kept appearing. Turns out he'd been wanting to ask me out but was nervous. The reading gave me patience to let him come to me."
- Sophia L.
Confirmed mutual feelings'What Does He Think of Me' FAQs
Your questions about reading his thoughts
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Can tarot show if he'll reach out to me?
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